I attended the funeral of an infant today. That small white casket is something you never want to see. There are no words that make any sense for that young mother.
The pastor drew our attention to the lack of flowers present at this humble gathering. He said, "Do NOT send me flowers when I die....Love me while I still live, hug me while I am still with you, visit me while I still walk this earth, gather around me while I still have breath, send me flowers while I LIVE!"
Livin' with the intent to have no regrets is a daily choice. Not an easy way to live - but the best way.